How to live life on your own terms? Crush that negative self-talk. It all starts with you, your thoughts and your belief system. Try this experiment: Look at yourself in the mirror and say, “I love myself”. We all want to be loved. So start with yourself. Next, say, “I accept myself”. Flaws and all. Start saying, “I love my life!” You begin to affirm that you’re already living it by saying it out loud. You have to love yourself first before someone will do that for you. Don’t put the pressure on others. You are responsible for your own